Greetings, Daisy Mae! Dwayne, here!
Besides my TI diagnosis in 1990; I also suffer from various heart problems. I wish my libido would die down! Unfortunately the diabetic neuropathy has created such a high level of ED (erectile dysfunction) that i can't do a damned thing about my libido --(lol) nothing to impress the ladies with. :( ....however, to your problem ... I have heard that it passes more quickly with women - you just need patience and a willingness to explore with "gentle" sexual-play. Is that anything official? No. But it is something I have heard over and over, again and again - from talking to a lot of women with diabetes. I am a trained and certified peer counsellor for mental health and addiction consumers ...now, I am not saying or assuming that you would be either (lol) ...however, I have seen diabetes play with people's minds, and creAte mental health issues in their lives. Diabetes sucks. The way all the extra side affects hit a person's life - and the lives around that person. but I could never wish diabetes upon my worst enemies, even ... and I have a few (lol). This disease -- some of the side affects - they don't have to be permanent; they don't have to last forever. Have patience - with yourself, with your husband, with your doctors (they try - it's just too bad their heads are only full of "book=knowledge" - lol)
I hope this has helped in some small way! Blessings!