I hate the “sugar police” more than anything. If I’m at a party and I want to indulge a little rather than feeling like a second class citizen because I can’t eat anything, I don’t need every busy body in the room telling me I’m diabetic and I can’t have that.
Believe me, I know I’m diabetic! It never leaves my mind. And, I also know what I can and can not eat. If I do choose to indulge, I know how to cover it unlike you. So mind your own business.
It’s for that reason that I never tell anyone I have diabetes unless there is some reason that they need to know (which is rare anyway).