I am so sorry to hear of the issue. I dread it myself, and I understand how awful it is. I see you live in GA, and i have heard good things about Emory and Peidmont. I have never used these places and do not know anything personally about them, I have just heard they are good. One of the two, I think Emory, is a national center of excellence, when you seek out a program look for a national center of excellence.
Hang in there Sande. We are with you and we wan to hep if we can.