I've just started at a new job and I'm not sure how to break the ice about my diabetes to the people around me and my bosses. I cannot feel highs or lows at all and so I frequently require help or become sick/pass out rather suddenly. I've been working there for about a week and no one knows yet because I'm not sure how to bring it up naturally...but today I started getting sick and wasn't able to do as much work as I would've liked for an afternoon. I'm worried I might have a really severe low and no one would understand what's going on.

I would like people to know, but I'm still new and I don't want anyone to think it was a mistake hiring the "sick girl". I also don't want to scare the people sitting around me by telling them I might pass out at any second or need help! Is there a tactful way of doing this? Should I tell just my bosses or just the people around me or both? Tell them differently or the same way or how? I've got a meeting coming up with my manager this Friday where he checks up on my progress and I figure I could tell him then, but I'm not sure how to do it without sounding like "woops I forgot to mention this while we were interviewing!"

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Well, there are, of course, many different ways to approach this. I tend not to advertise the fact that I am T1. I would never send out an email like Jackie did. But, I also don't try to hide it. However, I do have the luxury of not being overly sensitive to highs and lows (i.e. I have never passed out *KNOCK ON WOOD*... that's not to say I don't feel sick with highs and shaky/disoriented with lows), so perhaps I have never felt that I *had* to tell anyone. I have a test kit at work and don't try to hide when I use it. I also have a jar of glucose tablets and snacks there. Also, because it is better to be safe than sorry, I did tell my boss but I did it in a very off-hand way. I was out for lunch with my boss and a co-worker. I gave myself a bolus and just mentioned to them that I wasn't being rude - I wasn't checking my cell phone or anything - but that I was giving myself insulin. Because I didn't make a big deal out of it, they didn't either.

I find taking a shot, testing, or bolusing in front of everyone is a good way to break the ice. We T1's have no right to complain about ignorant comments from non Ds if we spend our lives keeping it a secret.

It can also work to your advantage. They may be afraid to fire you after you tell them, for fear of appearing discriminatory.

Very few know that I'm diabetic at work! Not dependent upon insulin, still hard at times to get the testing done when I need too. I had to laugh, one of the employees who took the first aid training, now the official medic... "ooh! U a diabetic!" after seeing my test kit, told her, "with your attitude, I'll take my chances with a roll of duct tape and the local firehall!"

New job wise, maybe the first responder at work, I might tell until you get settled in.

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