Our groups been a little inactive, so I'm throwing this one out there.
When my husband and I got married and then decided to have children, he worried.
He worried that they might end up with diabetes.
He worried about his health and how it factored into the stressors that would be placed on us by having a family.
He worried that if his health began to suffer that the additional burden of childrearing and helping him would be placed upon me.
Did any of these factors play into how many children you had? Or want to have?