origonally i didnt know my feancee had it i got with him just before he was diagnosed i didnt care that he has something that ales him i love him for him he is the only thing that matters to me ( other than our son) alement and all it is part of him and something i have to live with if im going to love him ( were not married yet but it is part of the plan and even if we dont there is still the fact our son is showing signs so i might have to deal with it any ways i really hope we get married i love him so much) you just have to find a girl that is willing to take the bad with all of the good and willing to help you when you cant help your self ( like when you are really low)
So I just realized you posted this 2 years ago... but in case you're still worried... If you find the right person there shouldn't be any problems! I was with the wrong guy when I was diagnosed which actually was the last straw of our relationship when he didn't care, put any effort it, listen to my concerns, etc. When I started dating my current (still non-DM) boyfriend he wanted to know everything and has been amazing since. I'm the worry wart about my future with DM and he calms me down.