Here’s an answer as diplomatically as I can put it — all of my family has been such a huge part of my life. But, without doubt, the answer is my older sister, S. As children, we bickered and argued, and disagreed on many things. I let that spill over into my twenties, but by the time S. turned 30, we had become friends. As I moved away, and came back to Maine, we’d have to catch up on some stuff,…