Comment by Judith on January 16, 2013 at 8:46pm

Oh poojah--I love you and I am so proud of you! My family did not treat me as normal, BUT they were also very supportive of me trying to get control.

You must do what you think is Right. There are many, many things I have loved about your culture for a long time.

But if there is no Honest love that knows the other well, Longevity will be difficult.

Many want nothing to do with this: BUT we are what we are. The D rules in any many ways.

Guess what?! Someday you will find someone who understands that. THAT's the one for you----by him (or her) you will make babies for generations to come!

Trust your heart. But I hope you will stay in touch here!.....

Comment by Mishi on January 17, 2013 at 12:14am

Hello Pooja san

Yes i no what you are talking about in a way,I have had D since i was DX when i was three am now 46,My parent where told i would never marry as i could not have children and i was also told my life line would be a 3rd less than non D,In japan to put it simply you you do not marry by the time your 25 the name for is Xmas cake long story what it means,My old endo told my parents that i will never marry and would be single all my life and make nothing of my life in any career,I was 14 when i was told this.

As to having D really did not come out of my shell until i went uni,Where i met my husband,When we where Married against my mother in laws and father advice who said he will never have children,My husband did not care and we went ahead,We have two children,As to my education i have PHD in biology and am a senior at a chemical company so i have proved every one wrong,I hope your family realise that your happiness is important at the end of the day and you have so much to give some one,I just hope one day you find some one and prove them all wrong,I enjoyed your story very much and thank you for sharing.Good look with your life

Deepest respect

Oshi

Comment by pooja hurkat on January 17, 2013 at 4:22am

i am overwhelmed guys....i know this is where people will understand me ...:)

Comment by renka on January 17, 2013 at 4:51pm

I totally understand you Pooja! Feels like the same story. I a beginning to wonder since I'm 44 and still single but we can't blame everything on D! d has made me a very compassionate person and I like who I am today. It makes dating more challenging but I choose to believe that I just haven't found mr. Right,yet!

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