Comment by Teena on February 8, 2013 at 11:52pm

Aaah...choices, choices! Indeed there can be so many. Numerous factors and variables to take in consideration. We can somewhat narrow it down to size: Your interest (what on earth do you like), Your innate skills and abilities (what and things you are good at), Personality/Attitude (Are you an outgoing person or you wish to be alone), Your objectives and rewards (Answer the question "why do I want to do this?" is it to have fun? serve others? or be popular and be wealthy woman on earth?

Now, now...nobody can really tell if you did the right decision. Only you can. Take time for a little self-introspection Whats wonderful is, you have the power to change your decisions and try another if things didn't work out. Do not be afraid to err..."fall off your stilts". That's how we learn, gain wisdom and get back up again. Hopefully, a stronger, better and wiser person.

Hmm, I see you write very well, and very poetic too. Dramatic you say? Right side of the brain much dominant? Maybe in the field of arts and literature? :)

Comment by Pastelpainter on February 9, 2013 at 2:22am

I agree with Teena, maybe journalism?

Comment by MegaMinxX on February 9, 2013 at 5:38pm

I found the following quite interesting, and the results for me were right on !

http://www.oprah.com/spirit/Who-Are-You-Meant-to-Be-Self-Assessment...

Comment by Valerie on February 10, 2013 at 7:00pm

Thanks! Here's a what I got....



Your Result:
Striving to Be In Control
You are a leader: You approach everything as though you were born to be in charge. Confident, assertive, and decisive, you know what you want and you go after it. You also look out for family, friends, and community—you feel you know what’s best for them—and have no fear of confronting anyone who challenges your ideas. Taking the driver’s seat, you also generously donate time and energy to people and neighborhood projects.
What to watch out for: When you feel threatened, or others refuse to go along with your agenda, you can become confrontational and domineering, sometimes to the point of being dictatorial. Practice letting someone else take charge on occasion. Also try meditation; it can help you become more aware of your controlling impulses and ease the anxiety that may be provoking them.
Looking ahead: You discover your purpose when you take control of your environment. For you, finding a decision-making role is key. That could mean anything from producing a play to spearheading a global campaign for something you care about. In work, you’re suited for leadership positions in education, government, industry, finance, religious institutions, or politics. But you can find satisfaction anytime you’re given the autonomy to do things your own way.

Comment by Tami on February 11, 2013 at 9:09am

Taking the next step is always a little scary...no matter what age or stage of life we are in...I'm 35 and still trying to "figure things out" Making a mistake is normal as well...I agree as well with Teena...I loved reading your post and look forward to reading more!

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