Sorry I didn't add more information sooner about my court case! Past month has been filled with doctor appointments, blood tests, and more appointments. I am currently on recovery from a 2-3 year struggle with diabulimia. I'm finally "mentally" prepared to get my self under better control, now just have to get there physically. I went from a 13.5 A1C to 10 in a month.. and after I get my pump, I'm hoping to be down to 6 :)
Alright, I just had to brag about my recent accomplishment. Back to topic...

Let me point out some important facts some of you may already be familiar with.
Before I began high school, my parents wrote up a personal "504 Plan" regarding my diabetes. They basically went off of a sample 504 plan based from the American Diabetes Association. (i.e. I would be allowed to leave the classroom in case of a low blood sugar. I would be allowed to leave to get water during any time. I could keep my insulin pen and glucose monitor with me at all times. I could leave to use the restroom at any time. etc. etc.)
Here a site that gives some information about a lot of the rights I was refused in high school - http://www.childrenwithdiabetes.com/504/

I only stayed at my high school for two years. During those two years, my school completely humiliated me and frightened me of my disease. I want to keep this first blog fairly short, so I will list just a few of my situations that happened in high school.

Let me also add this - I discovered I had juvenile diabetes two years before I started high school. I still did not want a lot of people knowing I had diabetes. I hated "displaying" my disease by having to check my glucose or administer insulin in front of others, especially other kids my age. I wanted to look and feel as normal as any kid without diabetes.

When I began high school, my parents told me about my 504 plan. I was told that my disease could be known amongst myself and my teachers; that they understood.
Little problems started to begin that only bothered me slightly..
Issue: My 504 plan stated I was allowed to leave the classroom at anytime to check my blood sugar (I didn't like checking my sugars in the classroom) I was always good about feeling my lows, and wanted to just let the teacher know I was leaving, and freely walkout.
Problem: I soon figured out that my teachers had no idea about any "504 Plan." They weren't even aware there was a diabetic in their classroom. If I ever wanted to leave to go to the nurse's office, I'd have to wait until the teacher could fill out a hall pass for me. I wasn't allowed to leave in the middle of tests or quizzes.

Humiliating events took place such as:
Issue: My 504 plan stated that if I was ever absent because of any diabetes related issues, then I was allowed to makeup any absent homework and turn it in with no penalty. Because, obviously, my teachers had no idea about my 504 plan, my absent homework was always deducted 50%, resulting in F
Problem: There were many problems because of this issue, however, there was one time when I was absent up to a week. I was in the process and switching basal insulins, and making a new regimen for myself. This resulted in many unexpecting highs and lows - making me feel AWFUL. Once I returned to school, my teacher stood in the front of my class and said out loud to me "My grandmother has diabetes, and its not even that bad. Theres no reason you should be missing class." (I remember this directly, one of the most embarrassing moments for someone young, with diabetes.)

Another situation that scared me was during a PE class -
In the middle of class, I noticed I was going low. However, my "main" PE coach had left the gym for a few minutes, and had the assistant PE coach watching over the class. I told the assistant PE coach I was low, and was leaving - She immediately stopped me. She told me since she wasn't my primary PE coach she couldn't let any student leave until my main coach returned. In the middle of explaining that I was diabetic and allowed to leave, my main PE coach returned. I told him I was low and leaving - He had no idea what I was talking about. At this point, I am very low, very sweaty, very confused, very "drunk" low for all you diabetics that know what I'm talking about - and I am having to explain that I am diabetic, and allowed to leave.
Let me just wrap this up by saying - I was terrified. When I was finally able to test my sugars, I was in the low 30s.

I stopped going to high school. I decided to have a "Why does it even matter" attitude towards school and my homework. I went from being an A,B student to D,F student pretty quick.
I finally immediately enrolled into the high school's partnering community college - which offers hundreds of students dual credit courses - I passed all my courses with As - only to be turned down by my high school who told me that they weren't going to accept my credits, and that I couldn't use the credits toward my high school diploma.
- Which this is a whole other issue which stirs up another problem.

summing this all up... My family and I decided to bundle up all these problems and take my high school into federal court.


Sorry if a lot of this was hard to understand - its a lot of issues and a lot of problems. Hard to cover all of them in one blog :)

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Comment by Gaelyne on February 5, 2008 at 3:32am
Wow, Kayla - I hope you and your parents win. I'm a type 2 diabetic that was diagnosed the first time when I was in high school and remember having to deal with some similar issues. After a couple of years, I was declared 'cured' so didn't think about diabetes again until I was pregnant for my 2nd son. I had gestational diabetes and needed insulin twice a day. Now I'm just type 2.

Good luck, and please keep us all posted how it goes.

Hugs,
Gaelyne
Comment by Loren on February 5, 2008 at 3:35am
Hi Kayla,
You poor thing!
All I can say is that I hope that high school will be made to pay for every single moment of embarrassment, suffering and anguish they made you suffer.
Maybe they will learn their lesson and any other diabetics they have in that school won't have to go through what you did!
I really and truly can't believe the ignorance of some people!
I wish you all the success kayla!
Take care,
Loren
Comment by Judith on February 5, 2008 at 12:33pm
Oh my, blessed be, Kayla. Even an old codger like me remembers clearly the various humiliations of high school. I can imagine the complexities of adding diabetes into the mix. I mean, there are tons of stories on this wonderful site about folks having trouble because their Docs don't "get it!" Much less whole school systems! You and your family are striking a blow for justice for all of us and I say Thank you! Do keep us posted, my dear.....
Comment by Cara on February 5, 2008 at 3:46pm
Please let us know how this works out! I know it is a looonnnggg tedious process, but it is very important to all diabetics.
I had never even heard of a 504 plan when I started high school 13 years ago. I never had one. Never needed one. We didn't even have a school nurse. Luckily, this let me control my diabetes without too much trouble.
I wish you all the luck.
Comment by Christina Luis on February 11, 2009 at 11:11am
wow Kayla, I am sorry that you have to go through this. I am currently fighting w/my daughters school to even get a 504 plan. They told me that because her attendance and grades are good she doesn't qualify. I recently found out that a sub pointed her out in class calling her "one of those people". I was flabbergasted. I couldn't believe that she was singled out like that. Thank you for posting your story. Its very inspiring. It makes me want to fight even harder for my daughter.
Comment by Kay on January 6, 2012 at 5:42pm

Christina, I am just now reading your comment (3 years later). I hope your daughter has made it though dealing with the ignorance high schools can have towards diabetic students. I know even today (age 24), I still can remember the situations/comments from teachers as if it happened yesterday.

I know what had always helped me through those years was my Dad constantly reminding me to learn from their ignorance. He would tell me that because of my diabetes, I have the ability to have a broader mindset and see situations through many perspectives. Two valuable abilities that can never be obtained with ignorance.

I just want to say Thank You for realizing comments like those toward your daughter are NOT RIGHT and should NOT BE TOLERABLE. It was comments like those that made me stop going to school altogether and stop caring about my education. My mom initially did not listen to me when I would tell her about the comments/situations revolving around my diabetes. She just figured I had turned into a "bad" kid and just wanted to be lazy. This caused me to not care about my education even more and created havoc on our relationship. However, when my Dad realized that my declines were instead due to ignorance towards my diabetes, I couldn't have been more grateful. Just having the feeling that SOMEONE could understand was enough to keep me from entirely going off into the deep end.

The mere fact that your daughter has a mom such as yourself, makes me feel like your daughter will (or already has) make it through the b*******/ignorance that can come from high school.

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