The Big answer is NO.
As we are depressed at times of us being treated different from others ..there is a bigger reason of getting upset i.e, discrimination showed by our own people....but i smile upon it.
You know what , i am searching for life partner and i am all alone in that...nobody in my family supports this idea...sometimes i confide in them that i am considering this particular boy ..they say yes for everybody whom i consider ...ha ha
you know why because they firmly believe that nobody will say yes to me...
The heights of this is that they find it funny....every guy be it XYZ ...they say ya he is good...
Today i had a fight with my sis..she is searching a boy for her sister in law...you know what they are rejecting boys just because dont approve his looks or any other silly reason....when i saw that guy pic i said he is good...than i also asked her you said me to consider a boy who was not even that good ...she said.." you cant compare yourself with her sister in law" ...WOW !!!
Guys can you believe it....i am an optimist and this is what breaks me more when your own people are not comfortable about you...
sometimes insecurities of your family spoil your future and life...I think personally insecurity is good ...doubting anybody is good but to a limit otherwise you cant take a step forward EVER!!!!