The other day, my sister-in-law yelled at DH and told him he eats too much and he's too fat. DH is starting with the diabetes dept in his hospital next week, moved from another dept. If he feels he's blamed by his new doctor, I'm afraid he's going to blow a fuse!! He's not that much overweight now anyway.
DH was diagnosed 3.5 years ago. Both of us were obese in middle age (we're 59), but I got off scot free (touch wood). His ethnic group is different and he was born 3 months premature to a poor mother. I think those two differences may play into it, too.
Don't know where I'm going with this except I'm pretty nervous about next week.