Husband's kids called and made some snide comments about my keeping them from talking to him; when in all honesty, they're the ones who have decided that its okay not to call him in 10 years. Make it short; they called on a Sunday and asked to talk to him; and I told them he was asleep and would not wake him since he just got home from work and he was tired. His blood sugar was already high; so I made the decision not to wake him. Told them I would have him call as soon as he woke up; and because he didn't call right back; they blocked him from calling. Next thing you know; the one called; the oldest one; and started telling him whatever and he got so upset that I was worried he'd have a heart attack. He told her not to call and that if she did then he'd take whatever steps were necessary to stop them from calling. They call or come visit whenever they feel like it; and I am the one who is to blame for this. We ended up changing our phone number to an unlisted number; so because of that she went on FB and friended my sister, niece, and other family members to get them to tell her what she wanted to know. That didn't work so she unfriended them and called the police here in Millington, TN; and told them I was holding him against his will. They showed up; and that was cleared up; so he got an attorney and had to have it settled that way. In the meantime; his blood sugar went haywire; and we went to see his doctor; and she got in touch with his daughter and made it clear that she needed to grow up and stay out of his life for now. She put him on a higher doseage of his oral medicine and has a nurse come by and check his blood pressure and make sure that he's okay. Its sad that it came to this but its the way they roll. Things have calmed down and he's doing good; following what they told him to do and has even enrolled in a class to get his weight down and he's off soda. He went off that as soon as we left the office on 8/15/13; and has not had one since. He's taken a bigger roll in his health, more confident about himself and taking his own blood sugar tests and I give him his shot; but the biggest thing that he's done is control his portions and what he eats and its making a difference. I'm really proud of him and know that he's got a way to go; but he's taking the first step and that's what counts. I'll be here to learn more and teach him how to get onto the sight; but I'll have to do the posting because it'll take too long for him to type out his thoughts. Ask people he works with; they make fun of him everyday that he works and is on the computer at work. They have to go in and change a lot of the things that he says because of the mistakes that he makes; but he's willing to learn and that's a big plus. Thank ya'll for the kind thoughts and encouragement that ya'll sent to me and know that I missed ya'll everyday that I was not here.