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I just need to vent a little... I just came back from my primary care physician. Before I spill out the results, you should know a few things. I get up at 5:30am three days a week and exercise for one hour. (Impressive, right) I get up at 6:30am on Saturdays and exercise for two hours. (Even more impressive, right?) I am a full-time student in college. I am taking 18 credits in course work. I am up late doing homework and I am not one of those college students that goes out drinking. I have had type 1 diabetes for 15 (yes, 15) years and I am on a pump. My a1c is wonderful. Today, my pcp told me I was fat. I tried to explain to her/him that I was gaining muscle from exercise. No luck. He/She said I need to watch my snacking. I do not snack. I do not "order out", I do not eat bad things like most people my age do. I pass by a plethora of fast-food joints on my way to school -- I do not stop. I am so dissapointed. I don't know what more to do to loose weight. I work so hard, I don't know where to go from here. Can I get an "amen".

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Comment by karebear1966 on March 18, 2011 at 2:59pm
Seriously! Muscle weighs more than fat. You are healthy and smart and are doing all the right things.. tell your pcp to bite me!
I find that sometimes.. you just cant fix stupid!!! Keep doing what your doing! be well! xoxoxoxox
Comment by veterandiabetic on March 18, 2011 at 4:03pm
Thank you. Someone knows something in this world -- that's you.
Comment by Betty J on March 18, 2011 at 4:19pm
Pcp's aren't as intelligent as Endos. Sounds like you need to change docs...I'm also a vet with 52 years.
Comment by Brian (bsc) on March 18, 2011 at 5:09pm
I'm sorry for this. I've worked very hard to build muscle and be "lean." Yet I get this all the time, simply because my BMI is in the overweight category. In the end, your doctor is your "advisor." In some areas, they have competence to give you advice. In other areas, they don't. Obviously, the don't have competence to give you advice on whether you are fat. Believe in yourself. You won't be wrong.
Comment by Robyn on March 18, 2011 at 5:36pm
You deserve a pat on the back and a "Great Job"....tell your doctor we all said so!! Ignore it, continue on......you are doing great.
Comment by veterandiabetic on March 18, 2011 at 6:00pm
Thank you Robyn, Betty J and bsc! I appreciate it.
Comment by Hismouse on March 18, 2011 at 8:07pm
That Dr needs to stop being so unkind!

Your doing a wonderful job, and don't let a soul tell you different.
And keep on doing that exercising and all that muscle wil shove out the fluff..:)

And we all know being on Insulin sometimes makes it a bear to lose weight, so again you are not alone.

I would have said something to that Dr, well I am one to argue and sass back when they step over my Payment line, and tell them that to. There is no good to come from a Doctors waste of words when a Pt like you is doing every thing possible to take care of herself.. you deserve such praise, I am giving you lots:)

So press on,. and your good will will win :) Debbie
Comment by Gerri on March 18, 2011 at 8:27pm
Slap that doc for me. You're healthy with a great A1c & exercise a lot (yep, I am impressed). Don't let anyone rain on your parade. Bet you're in better shape than the PCP.
Comment by latvianchick on March 19, 2011 at 2:08am
You can get an amen from me! What sort of endo is he if he does not know that insulin causes weight gain, for some people more than others! I have struggled with weight round the lower half of my abdomen all my life (I used to be big, my blood sugars used to be bordering on hypo, and I did have hypoglycemia if I did not eat enough) and then my pancreas packed up because of a cyst on the end of it, which they cannot reach to remove, and I went super skinny - like someone out of a concentration camp. My top half has gone skinny again due to poor control, but there is still the apron at the bottom. I was moaning about this to one doctor and he said it is because of the high doses of insulin that I am on. I am stuck with it. I am not vain, but would love to have hour glass figure, but with this disease it ain't goin' to happen!

The only thing I could do is to reduce the insulin, but then my sugars would go higher and that is not healthy either! Don't even consider it! I do not hold much store with these A1Cs anyway. I expected mine to be in double figures because of numerous infections, but the hypos have seemed to cancel them out and I am 9.9. Not my worst, but .....

Your comment should also go in the "What's the most annoying comment ........?" section. See what they have to say about it in there!

Your doctor does not know you as well as you do and those around you.
Comment by ellen on March 19, 2011 at 5:55am
screw the dr.!
her opinion means nothing if your bg readings are good.
this is one disease that you take care of yourself and,believe me,honey,youre doin' excellent!


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